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"Only that which is fit to print"Wrestling the age demon in relationships
2007-03-26
Man 60, looks 40- Such are the classified ads on the personals networks, woman 35, looks 22---what is going on here?
Record numbers of women are having breast jobs, taking over from nose jobs as the number one, elective plastic surgery.
Lipo suction and botox are next in popularity. From this observation deck I have seen this story reperat itself, again and
again. Mostly the husband or b/f isn't all that interested in the size of the boobs but will eventually give in under properly
applied pressure, and support the mrs. decision. Quicker than you can jack flash they are installed and are they ever
drawing attention. ZZZp, she's gone! Papa has to watch her run off with a
new lover with papa still oweing the anetheseologist and the consulting
surgeon.
No amount of cajoling, money, or women can ever get me to give up my self-respect and self esteem. just to date a younger woman. My age is what it is. I know lots of very unattractive 40 year old people so that is not the test for me. Some of the most unattractive in fact, were under 30 when their unpleasent attitude, hostile demeanor, and drug using stupor gave them an ugliness I have not seen in 60 year old women I have known.
Attractiveness is subjective. For me it is A woman who knows who she is, is comfortable with herself and path she is currently on, and does not feel the need to run with the herd. She knows that eventually the wrinkles are going to multiply and that life is too fleeting to waste on chasing after the perfect woman or man. For me, it has meant taking a new, lonlier road in which I seek to reaffirm myself and my relationship with the great and infinite ONE.
The most natural thing to do, it seems is that when we get dumped or the relationship ends by mutual agreement, is to rush right into another, similar
relationship, with similar personality types, and with a similar outcome. Don't feel too bad when it happens. It is common enough almost to state that it is a law.
Respect yourself at any age. I am ok with 60 and it will be the same with 70. We have increased our lifespan through the capacity of older people to make use of some of the medical breakthroughs that lead to a long life. If we don't prepare ourselves for old age, we may be cursing a lonly life that is unsatisfactory. All because we have unrealistic expectations we can stay young AND that staying young is the most desirable stage in life and that it is the natural order of things. Natural things we do to make our lives longer and healthier, such as eating right, exercising and getting out with friends and family seems to be the most effective means to fight off some negative aging perception. There is accumulated evidence that good habits do fight off the physical effects of aging. Age matters but only if you put your head in the mashed potatos or think you are a barber pole.
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